How to Make Her Crave Sex Again
Why does a woman who loves you have zero interest in sex? The answer will change how you approach intimacy forever.
If you are a man struggling with your partner's low desire, you will learn female arousal secrets, how to build anticipation that starts hours before the bedroom. Learn why wetness doesn't mean she's ready for penetration and how using your voice during sex can transform your intimate connection.
Whether you are single and dating or in a long-term relationship, this episode has game-changing insights for you. Pamela Madsen, who has worked with thousands of women to rebuild their sexuality, reveals the real reasons women shut down sexually and exactly what you can do about it.
Stop guessing what she wants - start giving her what she actually needs to come alive sexually.
Key Topics:
01:52 Understanding Women's Sexual Desires
02:41 The Importance of Time and Reassurance
04:43 The Role of Men's Voices in Arousal
05:47 The Art of Seduction and Teasing
10:36 Practical Tips for Better Sexual Connection
18:11 The Power of Presence and Communication
21:56 Expressing Appreciation and Arousal
23:23 Exploring the Female Body: Arousal and Pleasure
25:28 Reviving Desire: Breaking the Routine
26:52 A Fun Game to Spice Up Your Love Life
31:30 The Importance of Self-Pleasure and Communication
38:27 Effective Communication and Feedback in Relationships
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Episode Insight
Why She Says She Loves You But Won't Have Sex
There's a question that haunts countless relationships: Why does a woman who claims to love and find you attractive have zero interest in having sex with you? If this hits close to home, you're not alone. The answer isn't what most men think, and understanding it could completely transform your intimate connection.
The problem isn't that she's broken, unattracted to you, or that there's something fundamentally wrong with your technique. The issue is that most men have been taught "high school sex" - a rushed approach that completely misses how female arousal actually works.
The Wetness Myth That's Killing Your Sex Life
Here's the mistake almost every man makes: assuming that because she's wet, she's ready for penetration. This couldn't be further from the truth. When a woman becomes wet, it simply means she's interested and beginning her arousal process. It's not a green light for immediate penetration - it's barely the starting gun.
What many women experience is "premature penetration," and it's about as enjoyable as it sounds. Rushing to intercourse when she's just starting to get aroused can actually shut down her desire entirely, making it nearly impossible for her to reach the heightened arousal states where incredible sex happens.
Arousal Is a Full-Body Experience
Female eroticism isn't centered in one place - it's a full-body experience that requires time, attention, and presence. Think of her body like a Michelin star meal that deserves to be savored, not fast food to be consumed quickly. Every part of her body is potential erotic territory, from the space behind her neck to the inner curves of her thighs.
The magic happens when you slow down and become curious about her responses. Where does she melt when you touch her? What sounds does she make when you find the right spot? The goal isn't to rush through a checklist of body parts - it's to discover what makes her come alive.
Your Voice Is Your Secret Weapon
One of the most underutilized tools in your arsenal is your voice. While pornography teaches men to be silent, women are incredibly aroused by hearing their partner's desire, appreciation, and guidance. Simple phrases like "you taste incredible" or "I love how you respond when I touch you here" can transform the entire experience.
Using your voice also means giving her permission to take her time, to make sounds, and to be fully present in her body. When she feels safe to express herself without judgment, her capacity for pleasure expands exponentially.
Desire Starts Long Before the Bedroom
The most powerful sexual encounters don't begin when clothes come off - they start with a single text message, a lingering look, or a whispered suggestion hours earlier. Building anticipation throughout the day creates the emotional and mental space for her desire to flourish.
If your sex life has become predictable, it's time to introduce some creative elements. This doesn't mean you need to become a sexual acrobat or invest in expensive toys. Sometimes it's as simple as changing your approach, trying a new location, or creating an element of playful surprise.
The bottom line? Your woman doesn't need you to be perfect. She needs you to be present, curious, and willing to slow down long enough to truly see her. When you shift from performance to presence, everything changes.